Dating Advisor

If we consider all our dating tips, we can of course also compile 7 basic dating rules on what to do and further 7 dating rules on what to avoid. This is what we are doing now and here you are: your very quick guide for your first date:

So, you are out and have your first date. Great! In order to make your first date a success just stick to some simple rules about what to do and what to avoid. If you stick to the following tips, your date should be fine.

7 Rules what to Do on a Date

1. Open attitude and body language
2. Smile, a warm smile is a good opener!
3. Seek eye contact (but do not stare!)
4. Conversations should be on positive issues only
5. Keep to the truth – never exaggerate in order to impress
6. Be self confident, but neither snooty
7. Let the other finish what he/she has to say

7 Tips about what to avoid on a date

1. Shy greeting
2. Endless monologues or interrupting the other
3. Slander about other people (work colleagues, etc.)
4. NEVER mention the ex
5. Negativity, whining
6. Dogmatism and insisting
7. Making false promises

That is easy, isn’t it? Enjoy your date by sticking to our 7 rules for dating or read more…

Let’s address a somewhat hot topic today: Cheating your partner. Some call it fling, others may call it affair, escapade, adultery or even “love affair”. Actually, cheating can include some strong feelings but for the sake of simplicity and honesty, we will use the word cheating.

And if we talk about honesty: who has never thought of cheating his boyfriend (yeah girls I speak about YOU!) or cheating his girlfriend? Do not be outraged girls, if you girls weren’t cheating, with whom could the boys cheat you then? And boys: make for yourself clear that girls cheat, too. That means: you could be cheated as well
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How to flirt the right way? This a part two of the “True art of flirting” post. So let’s go on. Let’s assume you see a woman you like. Do not hesitate now, you have roughly 30 seconds to draw her attention and show that you are interested. Plain English, no further explanations. This is the way it works, so, start your flirt.

The easiest way is probably just to seek some eye contact. Smile and wait for her to answer your gaze. If the woman will not look back in a short time, she might not be interested or she simply did not notice you. So do not give up! Wait for the next fitting occasion and try it again! Perhaps she was just too distracted. After two more tries you know whether she is open to a flirt or not.
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Real flirting is an art – and you can learn it

Finding a partner is not always that easy and sometimes requires some personal changes. I do not want you to change your personality – oh no! We are speaking of enhancing your repertoire and learning new things. Like all arts, flirting has to be learned (there are no exceptions!). Even in the case you have a good connection to your flirt, even though you flirt already with some success, there is no reason why not improving your flirting skills and going deeper into the art of true flirting. Just because your (future) partner will appreciate it and feels good with it, or to increase your chances to find a partner for you (and to convince!).
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There are many widespread misbelieves about flirting. My last post about the relation between a good look and success with dating made me think more about if you can learn flirting or not. So, time for a new post.

Though everyone should know that everyone can flirt (some training might be required though) many people really think flirting skills cannot be taught nor improved. They just think that flirting is a kind of god-given gift one has – or not.
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Maybe you consider love poems somewhat old-fashioned or outdated, but you are missing some point. Love poems exist (at least!) since man learned to write, they survived and I bet they always will. Love might be mortal in many cases, but a good love poem never dies. So what exactly is a love poem and how to use it for dating?
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Over and over people tend to stress a common believe, which is often even considered a fact: A good look will give you better chances at dating and ease flirting. Of course, it sounds pretty logic and there should be a grain of truth in it. Should it? Let’s have a closer look and determine the exact conditions when this really holds true (if it does – actually!).
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A flirt on the street is sometimes considered a no-go, but if you both feel fine? Honestly, in such a case it would be just stupid to lose such an occasion. Moreover, how often does this really happen? You walk down a street – and there she walks! The right woman! She has everything one wants: she is pretty, she is friendly, and moreover she is just exactly your type. Shouldn’t you try to start a flirt on the street rather than risking to never see her again?
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It should go without saying that the dating tips for men on this site are meant for men who are looking seriously for a lasting long-term relationship. If you are just looking for some dating tips to get some quick adventures and one-night stands – this site is not for you. The tips would help you of course to accomplish such a goal. But it you would be lying and there are better ways to get some adventures.
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Should I dare a kiss on the first date?! Actually, there is no special (valid) rule about having a first kiss on the first date or about not having it. There can’t be. Nevertheless, you should tend to avoid on the very first date. The lady might think you just want to get her into bed if you are going too straightforward to kissing. A men could think you are easy too have or he might be a little nervous, too. So you have to earn yourself your credit and to prove that you want to have a long term relationship and can trust each other. Basically, it would best to wait with the first kiss until the say third date. If you really like each other, you will have all the time in the world to kiss and even more So do not harry if it is not the case. Better increase the interest of the lady and make her curious to get to know you better.
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