Dating Advisor

When it comes to conversation topics for your first date there are some very well established rules for the first date when it comes to the subjects for your conversation. Do not argue about politics, religion, war or even former relationships. Nor is money an acceptable topic, unless your date starts on his/her own. However, be gentle and diplomatic. The topics mentioned before are full of traps and are less likely to contribute to a successful first date.

Just tell something about you, but be careful and do not tell too much! You want to be interesting after the first date, too and to get a second date, right? If you are prompted it’s the situation changes, however. If you are not answering sufficiently her questions, she will feel ignored. You will have to find a good middle way. But still make sure not to talk too much about you in a self-centered way. Prove that you are interested in her, listen carefully and ask questions about her. She will feel flattered. And a man will aprreciate it the same way. Be sure, it is good for a first date.

It’s always good to make a woman laugh (a man will like it, too!). Good taste, a developed sense of humor and charm are important for any conversation and crucial for your first date. In addition, humor can easily lighten the tension which is always to some extent in the air on a first date. Listen to your feeling and do not try to get it done with it YES, NO and MAYBE! Answers like this will leave the impression you are not interested in her or that you do not take your date too serious.