Kiss on First Date?!

Posted by Katy at 18th August, 2009

Should I dare a kiss on the first date?! Actually, there is no special (valid) rule about having a first kiss on the first date or about not having it. There can’t be. Nevertheless, you should tend to avoid on the very first date. The lady might think you just want to get her into bed if you are going too straightforward to kissing. A men could think you are easy too have or he might be a little nervous, too. So you have to earn yourself your credit and to prove that you want to have a long term relationship and can trust each other. Basically, it would best to wait with the first kiss until the say third date. If you really like each other, you will have all the time in the world to kiss and even more :-) So do not harry if it is not the case. Better increase the interest of the lady and make her curious to get to know you better.



Having said this, if your date is going to give you signs that she would be interested in having a first kiss don’t be shy (though gentle!) and go for it! If you both feel well and life is beautiful, there is no reason for artificial delays. It might be a good middle way in the case that you are uncertain if she really wants to try a first kiss to give her a tender kiss at the end of the date. Be careful, but not timid, always make sure that she has a way out and look how she reacts. If she likes it, she will kiss you back and your kiss may get more intensive. Wouldn’t that be just an awesome end for a first date?

But sometimes, dating requires more patience. However, if you are waiting longer than the third date, it is more than possible that the woman will begin to consider you just a good friend and lose interest. And you don’t want that, do you? ;)
(You can kiss your date now)

Category : The First Date

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