Dating Advisor

How to flirt the right way? This a part two of the “True art of flirting” post. So let’s go on. Let’s assume you see a woman you like. Do not hesitate now, you have roughly 30 seconds to draw her attention and show that you are interested. Plain English, no further explanations. This is the way it works, so, start your flirt.

The easiest way is probably just to seek some eye contact. Smile and wait for her to answer your gaze. If the woman will not look back in a short time, she might not be interested or she simply did not notice you. So do not give up! Wait for the next fitting occasion and try it again! Perhaps she was just too distracted. After two more tries you know whether she is open to a flirt or not.

Let’s go further with flirting. So the woman gazed back, she even smiled. Let’s start with step two. Now you have to continue your flirt and to stand up. Oh yeah, stand up get over and introduce yourself. A simple “Hello, I am John” will do it. Be relaxed, but it is no shame if you get a little bit nervous. Actually it would not seem too trustworthy if you weren’t. Just being like one of those Don Juans in a film would leave the impression you are used to such kinds of activities and in most cases that would not be an advantage.

However, avoid being intrusive. Accept an no, it’s part of the game and there are few things women hate more than men who don’t accept an refusal. A first refusal at flirting could also be an advantage to you if you take it with dignity. You have good chances that she will feel rude afterwards and might come back on her own ?

Help! I am flirting! How to go on?

Now that you have managed to start a conversation you you just entered the stage of flirting. If she is interested, she will come up with some topics by herself, so just talk for a while with her. Maybe she is somewhat shy herself. So depending on your location, look for some alternative activities to warm up. Maybe you could dance or comment on the TV (if there is one in the bar). The weather is always a good topic, because everybody has some few lines to add and after all, it is important on how you talk to each other, not what. Hey, you already got yourself deep in the art of flirting and now it is important to consider the usual dating tips.

Conclusions: True flirting is an art and you can learn flirting!

Keep the following tips in mind: